<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833</id><updated>2011-11-28T11:29:23.690+11:00</updated><category term='chat'/><category term='women'/><category term='sex'/><category term='dating'/><category term='free'/><category term='bug fix'/><title type='text'>Free Online Dating With  iFreeDating.com</title><subtitle type='html'>Dedicated to site updates and news on the www.iFreeDating.com FREE DATING website</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>14</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-7250437860843533841</id><published>2010-11-16T23:34:00.000+11:00</published><updated>2010-11-16T23:34:05.024+11:00</updated><title type='text'>Android Is Here !</title><content type='html'>We're please to announce the beta release of our Android dating client for ifreedating, packed with features.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The big news with our Android client is that using your smart phones built in GPS you can now find other ifreedating members no matter where you are. So, if your out on the town and fancy a date, fire up our new app, checkin and see who's about, near you right now!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-7250437860843533841?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/7250437860843533841/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=7250437860843533841' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/7250437860843533841'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/7250437860843533841'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2010/11/android-is-here.html' title='Android Is Here !'/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-2548904408889559408</id><published>2010-09-21T08:03:00.001+10:00</published><updated>2010-09-21T08:03:17.939+10:00</updated><title type='text'>More downtime experienced</title><content type='html'>we suffered prolonged downtime yesterday as a result of our hosting providers failures to managed their servers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We are now actively engaged in searching for new hosting to mitigate further issues.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We apologise to all our clients.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On a happier note our Android dating client is coming along nicely.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you would like an early alpha release for trialing, please register your interest at android@ifreedating.com&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-2548904408889559408?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/2548904408889559408/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=2548904408889559408' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/2548904408889559408'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/2548904408889559408'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2010/09/more-downtime-experienced.html' title='More downtime experienced'/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-4163015467991941467</id><published>2010-09-01T21:11:00.000+10:00</published><updated>2010-09-01T21:11:24.576+10:00</updated><title type='text'>Android Client Coming Soon...</title><content type='html'>Yes folks. By now you must have heard that Android smart phones are becoming increasingly popular with more and more manufacturers releasing their new models sporting the powerful OS from Google so we are please to officially announce that an Android client for iFreeDating is well and truly under way. Early alpha/beta releases will be made available through iFreeDating.com for those wishing to take a pre-release test run before it goes to market. And of course, the client will be available at no cost. Its iFreeDating remember!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-4163015467991941467?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/4163015467991941467/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=4163015467991941467' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/4163015467991941467'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/4163015467991941467'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2010/09/android-client-coming-soon.html' title='Android Client Coming Soon...'/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-57312106021677521</id><published>2010-03-19T14:18:00.002+11:00</published><updated>2010-03-19T14:18:33.875+11:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bug fix'/><title type='text'>Profile Bug Fix</title><content type='html'>A bug that prevented new members from completing their profiles has been detected and fixed. Appologies to our recent new members who couldnt complete their profiles. All is well now.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-57312106021677521?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/57312106021677521/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=57312106021677521' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/57312106021677521'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/57312106021677521'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2010/03/profile-bug-fix.html' title='Profile Bug Fix'/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-1466607157239082241</id><published>2010-03-18T10:11:00.003+11:00</published><updated>2010-03-18T10:13:57.217+11:00</updated><title type='text'>exciting site updates</title><content type='html'>Well, we're ticking along nicely now with some more cosmetic changes to our &lt;a href="http://www.ifreedating.com"&gt;free dating&lt;/a&gt; main page and profiles. We've also added twitter buttons to allow you to easily follow members tweets. Another change sees chat now embeded into the page as opposed to a new window.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Enjoy!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ifreedaing.com team&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-1466607157239082241?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/1466607157239082241/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=1466607157239082241' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/1466607157239082241'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/1466607157239082241'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2010/03/exciting-site-updates.html' title='exciting site updates'/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-6697736347257516654</id><published>2009-04-26T16:14:00.002+10:00</published><updated>2009-04-26T16:15:42.674+10:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;h1&gt;About iFreeDating, the psychology behind it and how to make money with google adsense (...continued)&lt;/h1&gt; continued... &lt;p&gt;By far the biggest and &lt;b&gt;what generates the most internet traffic&lt;/b&gt; is &lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;porn&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. No surprises here. It appeals to our most basic need, to reproduce. We cant help it. We feel hungry, we need to eat. Here I thought is an area that would, by default, ensure some level of interest and appeal to both sexes, cross all borders and professions. Basically everyone. Obviously, a small fish like me could not just jump in and create the worlds best porn site from my basement and compete with the big boys, no pun intended, so I decided upon the softer side of porn, dating or rather, &lt;b&gt;online personals&lt;/b&gt;. But even in this field there are plenty of players. How to compete with what's already out there? How do you carve out a niche for yourself on an already over populated arena? You take your key ingredient and add a twist. In my case I took the topic of dating and to set me aside from the competition I set out to create a &lt;u&gt;free dating website&lt;/u&gt;. Goobang was born. It wasn't too long before I had some basic functionality resembling a dating website and decided that I needed a more descriptive website name, Goobang doesn't relay anything about the subject matter. If its not obvious to the visitor it certainly wont be obvious to a &lt;b&gt;search engine&lt;/b&gt;. The difficulty here is coming up with something unique and that still exists as a domain name. How lucky was I in securing a domain name that was short and descriptive, IFREEDATING.COM! Not only does this tell you instantly what the site is all about but it also contains &lt;b&gt;key search words&lt;/b&gt; that people using search engines such as Google would use when searching for dating websites. Having a good domain name is just part ofthe battle when you are looking at &lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;how to get good google rankings&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. You also need relevant content containing &lt;b&gt;keywords&lt;/b&gt; that are likely to appear in peoples search queries. One good thing about creating a free dating website like ifreedating is that it is user driven, in other words the content is provided by and generated by the users. I can just sit back, relatively speaking, and watch the website grow. The hope is that by careful design and using the &lt;b&gt;best search engine optimization techniques&lt;/b&gt;, or &lt;b&gt;SEO techniques&lt;/b&gt;, to promote the website it will achieve decent Google rankings which in turn will drive visitors to my site. IFreedating was in rapid development and its membership growing daily with men and women deciding to &lt;b&gt;sign up for free dating&lt;/b&gt;. More and more of my time was being taken up by the site and so it was about time it started to pay for itself. If you want to &lt;b&gt;make money from a website&lt;/b&gt; one of the simplest things you can do is sign up for &lt;u&gt;Google Adsense&lt;/u&gt;. Using Google adsense to make money is easy to do and with a little know how you will learn quickly on how to make money with google adsense. I've already touched on most of these centering around SEO. After all, no matter how good your website looks, no one is going to click those ads unless you now how to drive traffic to your website. Another point to keep in mind is &lt;b&gt;where to place Google Adsense&lt;/b&gt; in your pages. This depends on the page design itself, for example, ifreedatings pages tend to be narrow and can be lengthy. I choose tower ads since they will still be partly visible as the user reads or scrolls up and down the page. To see an example of a tower ad on ifreedating view my profile. So, there you go, there are some of the ingredients on &lt;b&gt;creating a website to get rich&lt;/b&gt;, well, generate some revenue at least.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-6697736347257516654?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/6697736347257516654/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=6697736347257516654' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/6697736347257516654'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/6697736347257516654'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2009/04/about-ifreedating-psychology-behind-it_26.html' title=''/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-2616476886588520095</id><published>2009-04-26T16:14:00.001+10:00</published><updated>2009-04-26T16:14:52.900+10:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;h1&gt;About iFreeDating, the psychology behind it and how to make money with google adsense (part one)&lt;/h1&gt; &lt;p&gt;ifreedating  is &lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;free dating&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, 100% free dating. Simple, and fact. &lt;b&gt;No charges&lt;/b&gt;. Ever. ifreedating.com offers free services on a level with other dating sites that charge you for membership. Some so called free dating sites are not truly 100% free dating. They may allow you &lt;b&gt;free sign up&lt;/b&gt; and to browse profiles but when you want to make contact they will sting you for a subscription or insist you purchase credits. This normally is the case for the guys. Women get to use the full site for free whilst the men need to pay to make contact with women they desire. There is a reason for this. To encourage guys to part with hard earned &lt;b&gt;cash&lt;/b&gt; when they find a woman they'd like to make contact with and, sadly, men are suckers and easy targets. When your'e hungry, you gotta eat, right? &lt;b&gt;ifreedating's features&lt;/b&gt;, including email, chat, instant messaging, video profiles, user comments and much much more and are &lt;b&gt;free to both men and woman&lt;/b&gt; alike.  You can even &lt;b&gt;add twitter&lt;/b&gt; updates to give your profile a more real time feel. If you want &lt;b&gt;truly free dating&lt;/b&gt;, international free dating then ifreedating provides the &lt;b&gt;best dating website&lt;/b&gt; around today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;ifreedating&lt;/b&gt; started as &lt;b&gt;Goobang&lt;/b&gt; back in Feb 2006. The original inspiration for making a dating website was initially as a means to further develop my web and java development skills, a place to try out new technologies and to showcase my developer/design skills. But why create a free dating website? Well, I wanted to create a site that would test my code and design thoroughly which meant creating a site that would attract a lot of visitors which inturn meant the site had to provide content that appealed to the majority, men, women, young and old. But what? What appeals to 99% of web surfers. Its going to be what appeals to us as human beings the most. What are the things, as humans we cannot help but act upon? &lt;b&gt;Our natural urges&lt;/b&gt;, a means to our  survival. I narrowed this down to four categories.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;li&gt;Relationships and sex&lt;/li&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;li&gt;Food&lt;/li&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;li&gt;Power, money and success&lt;/li&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;li&gt;competition&lt;/li&gt; &lt;p&gt;These four key ingredients ensure our survival. Food gives us energy and strength enabling us to compete and hopefully win and succeed giving us power and success (money and position) which ensures us a good mate to pass on our genes ensuring our own personal survival through our offspring. This, ladies and gentlemen is &lt;b&gt;meaning of life&lt;/b&gt;. Its not 42, its simply our selfish need to ensure our own &lt;b&gt;survival&lt;/b&gt;. It is the very reason why religion came about. We cannot bare the thought that we will one day cease to be so &lt;b&gt;religion created an afterlife&lt;/b&gt;. Churches control millions of people and billions of dollars world wide by using our fear of death by offering us salvation from the fear of non-existence. But I digress somewhat. How do the four basic human desires listed above translate into web topics. Very simply.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;li&gt;Porn (many categories of greater and lessor degrees)&lt;/li&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;li&gt;Dieting, basically self image so we could include cosmetics and medicines under this category&lt;/li&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;li&gt;Making easy money, e.g. gambling, get rich schemes etc. Money equals power and position.&lt;/li&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;li&gt;Online gaming. A recreational pursuit but also a means of displaying your strength against an opponent.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-2616476886588520095?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/2616476886588520095/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=2616476886588520095' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/2616476886588520095'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/2616476886588520095'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2009/04/about-ifreedating-psychology-behind-it.html' title=''/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-456635205298038800</id><published>2009-04-26T15:42:00.001+10:00</published><updated>2009-04-26T15:45:20.898+10:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>I've posted some new articles on iFreeDating.com and thought i'll post one of them here for anyone interested.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;h1&gt;Why Do Bad Guys Get The Best Girls?&lt;/h1&gt; &lt;p&gt;If we are to believe the movies, the ruthless &lt;b&gt;tough guy always gets the girl&lt;/b&gt;. And didn't it seem that the &lt;b&gt;bad boys&lt;/b&gt; at school always had the &lt;b&gt;hottest babes&lt;/b&gt;? The best looking girls always seem to love the bad guys. Maybe because the best looking guys always became the bad guys? Everywhere we tend to see bad guys and nice girls. We see fools and meatheads with the girls of our fantasies. In the mall we see our flaxen haired goddesses with America's Most Wanted. Is it &lt;b&gt;nature at work&lt;/b&gt;, is it us, what has gone awry?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Men are confused. We like to refer to stereotypes and work from them. Men are told that we need to be a hero and a &lt;b&gt;tough guy&lt;/b&gt;. But then we are told we need to be in touch with our &lt;b&gt;sensitive sides&lt;/b&gt;. Meanwhile the man down the street who &lt;b&gt;treats his girlfriends like crap&lt;/b&gt;, never calls, is rude and disrespect appears to have a fan club developing. Life, my friends, can seem unfair. But let's look at what is going on with this scenario.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Interest. &lt;b&gt;Bad guys are interesting&lt;/b&gt;, they do interesting things. They have strayed from the straight-and-narrow and have developed their own code of conduct. They do what they want. They go where they want. They answer to no one. They are, in other words, fascinating. Tow the line, do as you are told and inevitably you will be become dull. &lt;b&gt;Mavericks are interesting, straight guys are not&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Bad guys are &lt;b&gt;confident&lt;/b&gt; and &lt;b&gt;self assured&lt;/b&gt;. They know what they're about and don't really care what others think. They are their own men and don't need others to prop them up. Bad guys don't have to be in shape, just look at &lt;b&gt;James Galdofini&lt;/b&gt; from &lt;b&gt;The Sopranos&lt;/b&gt;, who is immensely attractive despite his rotund appearance. Some can become almost caricaturesof themselves, but that doesn't make them any less attractive.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Plus bad guys are a challenge. We all love a challenge, and women may love a challenge even more than the boys. If something is a challenge, the end results must surely be worthwhile, right? The girls who go after bad guys want to find the pot of gold at the end of crazy rainbow. They will go to great lengths to solve their mysteries. And once they have them, once they've conquered the challenge, they don't want to let go. Plus it makes for an exciting rollercoaster ride because the bad guy could walk away at any moment. The greater the danger of loosing a bad guy, the greater the effort they'll put forth to keep them. And there may be a lesson there.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;What do we have if we combine these facets? &lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Power, strength of character, confidence, a maverick nature&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and an immensely interesting personality equals &lt;b&gt;sexiness&lt;/b&gt;. That is exactly what the bad boy is, so it's no surprise that this type of guy often get the gal. It doesn't mean to say that we like them, and it doesn't mean it is fair or even a good thing, but raw attraction can be nature's way.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;I am not in any way suggesting that we should all be Mr. Bad Guy. Not at all. What I am saying is that there are &lt;b&gt;lessons to be learned&lt;/b&gt; here. What is attractive can be modified and added to our arsenal of &lt;b&gt;dating weaponry&lt;/b&gt;. How you perceive yourself that matters the most. If you can &lt;b&gt;increase your self confidence&lt;/b&gt; levels, get your &lt;b&gt;career on the right tracks&lt;/b&gt;, excel in what you do and be your own man within the confines of your working life, then you'll get that &lt;b&gt;bad boy confidence&lt;/b&gt;. And that attitude will &lt;b&gt;boost your attractiveness&lt;/b&gt;. You don't need to go around being bad, but you can be a bit more deliberate in your actions, a little less available and a little more &lt;b&gt;enigmatic&lt;/b&gt;. This will boost your interest factor and again help in your attractiveness.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The modern &lt;b&gt;dating game&lt;/b&gt; is highly complex and courting rituals can be a minefield. Go back to basics, analyze what is it that you think potential partners would like and think about how can you match of yourself to those qualities. Changing just a few small things could make the world of difference.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-456635205298038800?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/456635205298038800/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=456635205298038800' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/456635205298038800'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/456635205298038800'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2009/04/ive-posted-some-new-articles-on.html' title=''/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-4114677409214747617</id><published>2008-09-17T00:38:00.003+10:00</published><updated>2008-09-17T00:44:41.312+10:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sex'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='free'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='chat'/><title type='text'>New Features</title><content type='html'>Ok, so its been a while but things have not stopped going forward. Recently we introduced 'comments' allowing any user/viewer to comment on a profile. Of course, any profile can turn this feature off if they so wish.&lt;br /&gt;Secondly, all profiles have to the option to display their Twitter status. I'm sure you've heard of the micro-blog Twitter, well now you can add your Twitter updates to your profile for all visitors to see.&lt;br /&gt;And lastly, we've introduced chat, a proper chat client. So far two rooms are available, general chat and an adults only chat. All are welcome but if your are not logged into your profile you will be known simply as 'anonymous', so get yourself a profile (its free naturally) and start chatting to in our new community.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-4114677409214747617?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/4114677409214747617/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=4114677409214747617' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/4114677409214747617'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/4114677409214747617'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2008/09/new-features.html' title='New Features'/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-5643577888349542641</id><published>2008-06-22T16:14:00.002+10:00</published><updated>2008-06-22T16:17:22.023+10:00</updated><title type='text'>Site Updates</title><content type='html'>Recently, the site has been getting a little make-over, namely the splash page, &lt;a href="http://www.ifreedating.com/freedating/signUp.jsp"&gt; sign up&lt;/a&gt; page and the edit profile page. There are a couple of minor changes going on right now which will be uploaded in the next day or two.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-5643577888349542641?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/5643577888349542641/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=5643577888349542641' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/5643577888349542641'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/5643577888349542641'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2008/06/site-updates.html' title='Site Updates'/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-308007154846491744</id><published>2008-06-12T10:16:00.001+10:00</published><updated>2008-06-12T10:18:34.041+10:00</updated><title type='text'>Site Up/Down</title><content type='html'>Well the past couple of days we've had some issues with our hosting during the replacement of a server which required some quick changes to the site configuration but we seem to be running smoothly now and somewhat faster so some good has come out of it :)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-308007154846491744?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/308007154846491744/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=308007154846491744' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/308007154846491744'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/308007154846491744'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2008/06/site-updown.html' title='Site Up/Down'/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-1219272484142336081</id><published>2008-06-03T17:21:00.001+10:00</published><updated>2008-06-03T17:21:41.286+10:00</updated><title type='text'>Site Update</title><content type='html'>The most recent addition to the &lt;a href="http://www.ifreedating.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://www.ifreedating.com&lt;/a&gt; website is a feature which allows visitors to add comments to a profile they are viewing. No need to be logged on as a user, just post your comment freely regarding the profile in view. Profile owners are able to delete unwanted comments and comment posters are able to remove comments they have added so long as they posted the comment as a logged in user. All comments are censored of course &lt;img src="http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";)" class="wp-smiley" /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-1219272484142336081?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/1219272484142336081/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=1219272484142336081' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/1219272484142336081'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/1219272484142336081'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2008/06/site-update.html' title='Site Update'/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-7732412074745269089</id><published>2008-06-03T17:19:00.001+10:00</published><updated>2008-06-03T18:07:10.104+10:00</updated><title type='text'>www.iFreeDating.com Features</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="postcontent"&gt;   &lt;div class="snap_preview"&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ok, well for all those new to the &lt;a href="http://www.ifreedating.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://www.iFreeDating.com&lt;/a&gt; website and are wondering what kinda free features we offer, here is a list of whats available. And remember, its all FREE.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Email&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Instant Messaging&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Profile Pictures&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;You Tube Video Profiles&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Profile Comments&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Friends Lists&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Spam Protection&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Report Abuse&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Rate Profiles&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Event Notification&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Profile Deletion&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;No Fees&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;So there you have it. All yours for free &lt;img src="http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="wp-smiley" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-7732412074745269089?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/7732412074745269089/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=7732412074745269089' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/7732412074745269089'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/7732412074745269089'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2008/06/wwwifreedatingcom-features.html' title='www.iFreeDating.com Features'/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797460808005471833.post-4608705302222418093</id><published>2008-06-03T17:18:00.000+10:00</published><updated>2008-06-03T17:19:28.733+10:00</updated><title type='text'>Welcome !</title><content type='html'>Greetings out there ! And welcome to the &lt;a href="http://www.ifreedating.com"&gt;iFreeDating&lt;/a&gt; blog where you can find news on the latests goings on and site updates at&lt;a href="http://www.ifreedating.com"&gt; iFreeDating.com&lt;/a&gt;, the hot free dating site that reaches parts other dating sites cannot reach ! Dont know why I didnt do this before, doh!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5797460808005471833-4608705302222418093?l=ifreedating.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/feeds/4608705302222418093/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5797460808005471833&amp;postID=4608705302222418093' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/4608705302222418093'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5797460808005471833/posts/default/4608705302222418093'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ifreedating.blogspot.com/2008/06/welcome.html' title='Welcome !'/><author><name>Jason Tomlins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07861737573372038023</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_k-eVfObwt6c/SETuOrw4F0I/AAAAAAAAAAM/Y_WkgHJTOxM/S220/dude.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
